Monday, September 29, 2014
Lindsay Lohan: Fully Loaded just Pubbed; First Lohan Bio
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: Alyssa Tognetti
Astonish Media Group
alyssa@astonishmediagroup.com
“Lohan: Fully Loaded: From Disney to Disaster: An Unauthorized Biography”
Released by Riverdale Avenue Books
- New York Times Best-selling Author Marc Shapiro Writes the First Book Chronicling Lindsay Lohan’s Adult Life -
Riverdale, NY- September 24, 2014 – The innovative hybrid publisher, Riverdale Avenue Book just published the first biography of Lindsay Lohan as an adult recounting her bizarre free-fall from Disney princess to America’s favorite train wreck. Lindsay Lohan: Fully Loaded: From Disney to Disaster: An Unauthorized Biography is an update on the classic Hollywood tale of talent and promise cut short by well-chronicled alcohol, drugs, promiscuity, a dysfunctional childhood, emotional issues and the willingness of a shark-like media to attack at every turn.
As told by New York Times best-selling author Marc Shapiro, Lindsay Lohan: Fully Loaded: From Disney to Disaster tells the story of a child brought up in the midst of a dysfunctional and often violent and substance-abusing family. Lindsay’s talent ultimately brought her to Hollywood where hit movies and growing celebrity had the entertainment world pegging her as the next IT girl. What followed was a steady decline as Lindsay’s inability to cope with real world realities and the fantasy of ‘Tinsel Town’ manifested itself in countless stints in rehab and run-ins with the law as she slowly, but surely, burned every emotional and professional bridge on an odyssey that currently has her making a literal last stand in London.
"Writing this book was an emotional rollercoaster. One moment I was pulling for Lindsay to fight off her demons so I could write a happy ending. The next I was totally ticked off at the forces that were letting Lindsay slide through life. To be honest, I was pulling for Lindsay to face harsh reality and maybe a stint behind bars,” said author Marc Shapiro. “Lindsay continues to skate at the largesse of enablers, dysfunctional parents and a legal system that continues to let her slide. Consequently, this is a work in progress with no end in sight.”
“Lindsay Lohan’s fall fascinates us because we all watched her grow up from The Parent Trap and her Disney films to Mean Girls, and we’ve been somewhat stunned by her decade long free-fall. We are fascinated by her life because we all want to see her overcome the odds and prove the pundits wrong, but at the same time we shake our heads and say, 'we saw it coming.’ Lindsay Lohan is the favorite train wreck of her generation and yet, we are all still rooting for her,” said Publisher Lori Perkins. “Lindsay Lohan: Fully Loaded is a page-turner even though we know what happens on every page.”
The book is available in ebook format for $9.99 and in print with photos is $16.99.
About Marc Shapiro
Marc Shapiro is the New York Times bestselling author of We Love Jenni - An Unauthorized Biography, The Secret Life of EL James, Who is Katie Holmes? - An Unauthorized Biography, Legally Bieber: Justin Bieber at 18, J.K. Rowling: The Wizard Behind Harry Potter, Justin Bieber: The Fever!, Game: The Resurrection of Tim Tebow and many other bestselling celebrity biographies. He is a freelance entertainment journalist covering film, television, and music for a number of national and international newspapers and magazines.
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
Falling in Love with the Passport to a Fling Series
Sometimes you just want to curl up with a really good love story.
I was lucky enough to do that this holiday weekend, although I didn't know that was going to be on the agenda.
I had met Adam Carpenter a few years ago and encouraged him to start writing "smut," and he complied, selling his first erotic short story to me when I was the Editorial Director of Ravenous Romance in the Men in Shorts anthology I edited there. From there, he went on to write a few short stories, and then the Desperate Husbands series (which I still love). But, as you all know, I left RR to start Riverdale Avenue Books, and I left a few of Adam's books there as well.
Passport to a Fling started as a short story about three gay friends who have been looking for nookie in all the wrong NY neighborhoods and challenge themselves to find love in Paris, Rome and London, respectively. French Men, Italian Guys and English Lads were published under different titles, after my tenure as editor.
But I reconnected with Adam when I learned that he had sold some books to Ellora's Cave and he told me that he had gotten the rights to this earlier series back. I jumped at the chance to publish them, especially over the long Labor Day weekend when I was hoping that my readers could devour them like the delicious book man candy they are.
So I sat down to edit them fairly rapidly, and just fell in love with Matt, Freddie and Jake. The settings were romantic and the situations were exciting. I was honestly disappointed when the series ended, so I asked Adam to write us a Christmas story, which he will do (mark your calendar).
I hope you'll enjoy these hot m/m erotic romances as much as I did. Or as much as one of my other favorite erotic romance writers, Ryan Field, did:
I love all of Adam Carpenter's work because there's a special quality that draws me into his stories with characters I can relate to on one level and fantasize about on another. [Passport] to a Fling, and the series, always takes me to places that I think we all dream about from time to time. And following the lives of these unforgettable characters is about as good and authentic as it gets nowadays.
I was lucky enough to do that this holiday weekend, although I didn't know that was going to be on the agenda.
I had met Adam Carpenter a few years ago and encouraged him to start writing "smut," and he complied, selling his first erotic short story to me when I was the Editorial Director of Ravenous Romance in the Men in Shorts anthology I edited there. From there, he went on to write a few short stories, and then the Desperate Husbands series (which I still love). But, as you all know, I left RR to start Riverdale Avenue Books, and I left a few of Adam's books there as well.
Passport to a Fling started as a short story about three gay friends who have been looking for nookie in all the wrong NY neighborhoods and challenge themselves to find love in Paris, Rome and London, respectively. French Men, Italian Guys and English Lads were published under different titles, after my tenure as editor.
But I reconnected with Adam when I learned that he had sold some books to Ellora's Cave and he told me that he had gotten the rights to this earlier series back. I jumped at the chance to publish them, especially over the long Labor Day weekend when I was hoping that my readers could devour them like the delicious book man candy they are.
So I sat down to edit them fairly rapidly, and just fell in love with Matt, Freddie and Jake. The settings were romantic and the situations were exciting. I was honestly disappointed when the series ended, so I asked Adam to write us a Christmas story, which he will do (mark your calendar).
I hope you'll enjoy these hot m/m erotic romances as much as I did. Or as much as one of my other favorite erotic romance writers, Ryan Field, did:
I love all of Adam Carpenter's work because there's a special quality that draws me into his stories with characters I can relate to on one level and fantasize about on another. [Passport] to a Fling, and the series, always takes me to places that I think we all dream about from time to time. And following the lives of these unforgettable characters is about as good and authentic as it gets nowadays.
Saturday, August 23, 2014
BDSM Writers Conference is All Joey Hill's Fault
Reprinted from RomanceBeat.com
At the opening ceremonies of the First Annual BDSM Writers Con in Manhattan’s Roosevelt Hotel, founder and hostess Dr. Charley Ferrer tearfully confessed that the reason the conference exists today was because she’d read a book; in particular Joey W. Hill’s novel The Vampire Queen’s Servant. Doctor Charley stated, “…it was the first BDSM book I ever read that depicted a Dominant woman respectfully and with great empathy. This was especially important to me as I identify as a Dominant woman and it’s rare that I find a book that doesn’t portray me as a club owning ProDom servicing men,” she explained.
Impressed with the author, Doctor Charley jokingly states she wrote “Joey” a fan letter that started with the line, “I’m really disappointed to find out you are a woman because I wanted to kidnap Jacob…” (Jacob was the hero in the story.)
Doctor Charley said that she started the BDSM Writers’ Conference because she wanted to help decrease the level of misconceptions and prejudice that exists and help other authors create realistic characters where the BDSM practiced was authentic and the characters were real. Doctor Charley stated that BDSM is a very individual experience, and that she did not see that diversity in popular culture, so she wanted to bring that variety to the written page.
When Joey W. Hill got up to give her keynote address, she said that Dr. Ferrer had almost taken the wind from her sails, because the point Joey wanted to make was that the real life experience of BDSM is so very personal. She then went on to share how she never understood that she had a submissive streak in her until she became a writer, but looking back, as a little girl, she always had “Ken hold Barbie captive in a dungeon” and she had been awed by the service the Knights of the Round Table offered to their King and Ladies. Joey shared that the first time her husband, who she said is “not a dom - he considers himself ‘vanilla with a mean streak'” tied her up, she had a cathartic release. But she explained that this was before the internet, so for her it was a very personal journey “explored in solitude.”
Joey then commented that for her, the practice of BDSM is “Soul Love - love that speaks to the need to connect and trust, to be safe and accepted in a very lonely world,” adding that if she can give her readers a “one-handed read or a revelation, or both, it’s a win-win.”
Joey W. Hill ended by saying that she would consider herself “a success as a writer if her books made a positive effect on just one reader” and Doctor Charley’s tearful confession of inspiration for the conference seemed to bring her full circle. Joey and Dr. Charley Ferrer both laughed about the fact that they had not shared notes prior to giving their speeches, and yet had a very similar message to share with participants.
You can review their speeches below:
At the opening ceremonies of the First Annual BDSM Writers Con in Manhattan’s Roosevelt Hotel, founder and hostess Dr. Charley Ferrer tearfully confessed that the reason the conference exists today was because she’d read a book; in particular Joey W. Hill’s novel The Vampire Queen’s Servant. Doctor Charley stated, “…it was the first BDSM book I ever read that depicted a Dominant woman respectfully and with great empathy. This was especially important to me as I identify as a Dominant woman and it’s rare that I find a book that doesn’t portray me as a club owning ProDom servicing men,” she explained.
Impressed with the author, Doctor Charley jokingly states she wrote “Joey” a fan letter that started with the line, “I’m really disappointed to find out you are a woman because I wanted to kidnap Jacob…” (Jacob was the hero in the story.)
Doctor Charley said that she started the BDSM Writers’ Conference because she wanted to help decrease the level of misconceptions and prejudice that exists and help other authors create realistic characters where the BDSM practiced was authentic and the characters were real. Doctor Charley stated that BDSM is a very individual experience, and that she did not see that diversity in popular culture, so she wanted to bring that variety to the written page.
When Joey W. Hill got up to give her keynote address, she said that Dr. Ferrer had almost taken the wind from her sails, because the point Joey wanted to make was that the real life experience of BDSM is so very personal. She then went on to share how she never understood that she had a submissive streak in her until she became a writer, but looking back, as a little girl, she always had “Ken hold Barbie captive in a dungeon” and she had been awed by the service the Knights of the Round Table offered to their King and Ladies. Joey shared that the first time her husband, who she said is “not a dom - he considers himself ‘vanilla with a mean streak'” tied her up, she had a cathartic release. But she explained that this was before the internet, so for her it was a very personal journey “explored in solitude.”
Joey then commented that for her, the practice of BDSM is “Soul Love - love that speaks to the need to connect and trust, to be safe and accepted in a very lonely world,” adding that if she can give her readers a “one-handed read or a revelation, or both, it’s a win-win.”
Joey W. Hill ended by saying that she would consider herself “a success as a writer if her books made a positive effect on just one reader” and Doctor Charley’s tearful confession of inspiration for the conference seemed to bring her full circle. Joey and Dr. Charley Ferrer both laughed about the fact that they had not shared notes prior to giving their speeches, and yet had a very similar message to share with participants.
You can review their speeches below:
BDSM WRITERS CON 2014 Speech
Dr. Charley Ferrer
Welcome…I’m
thrilled to have you join me
Stand up -- say hello to the person on either side of
you.
Behind and in front
These are the
people who are going to share this amazing
four-day journey with you into the world of Dominance and submission.
four-day journey with you into the world of Dominance and submission.
Before we get
started on this amazing journey, I want to discuss the power of your word.
Don Miguel Ruiz,
the author of the four-agreements wrote, “be impeccable with your word!”
He cautioned us to notice
how our words affected others, how they can bring about change for better or
worse. Being impeccable with your word is about being honest and having
integrity and noticing the effects those words have on another.
I want to share
with you how one individual’s words affected my life…and by association YOURS.
A few years ago I
read a book...
…it was the first
BDSM book I ever read that depicted a Dominant woman respectfully and with
great empathy. (This was especially important to me as I identify as a Dominant
woman and it’s rare that I find a book that doesn’t portray me as a club owing
ProDom servicing men.)
The male submissive
in this book was portrayed with such integrity and strength of character that I
saw many of my own lovers—themselves submissive/slave men—in the hero.
The story was
fantastic yet it was the respectful and realistic portrayal of the characters personalities
that had me falling in love with them and the author.
It was the first
time I felt compelled to write an author and congratulate HIM on an awesome
book. And so you’ll understand my surprise when I discovered that Joey wasn’t a
man at all. Let me share the first sentence of my letter, it began something
like this:
Dear Joey,
“I’m really
disappointment to find out you were a woman because I wanted to kidnap Jacob…”
(Jacob was the hero
in the story)
Yep…our very own
keynote speaker, Joey W. Hill was the author of this book, The Vampire Queen’s Servant and a catalyst to why you’re all
sitting here today.
I wanted to meet
Joey and asked if I could interview her for my television show. She connected
me with Stella Price who hosts Authors After Dark and Stella invited me to
speak at AAD and help normalize BDSM for her participants. While there, I was
asked by a publisher if I ever considered writing a book to help writers in the
D/s genre.
I never thought of
that. I was so busy trying to get the
medical and mental health community to educate themselves about D/s so they could
better serve their patients, the thought of teaching authors never occurred to
me. Yet now that the seed was planted, the idea took a live of its
own.
Within 6-months I had written BDSM for Writers to provide a basic and intermediate look into the
psychology of why individuals participate in Dominance and submission and to
give authors just starting in the genre, or perhaps already in it, assistance.
In my book, I provided various tidbits that authors needed
to know to make their characters not only more realistic but credible as well. I even throw in information about how to
train a slave and the various uses of humiliation and pain as well as a few
exercises that would help them delve into the psychological aspects of
submission and dominance. (My book, BDSM
The Naked Truth was the version created for the general public.)
While writing these books, it became clear to me that if I
wanted change I had to be willing to stand up and be counted and so I came out
of the Leather Closet completely. This did put a strain on my romantic relationships
as my partner would now be outed by association.
As for work, the college I taught at thought I might
influence my students adversely and some colleagues felt I should be helping to
treat my patients to overcome this “perversion” not encourage them to want
more.
All these prejudices ONLY SERVED to encourage me provide
even more education.
This lead to more connections with writers and the general
public and within the year, 2011, I was conducting workshops for writers.
By 2012, I put together a three-day BDSM Intensive workshop
for writers where we spoke about the intricacies of the power exchange, the
psychological connections men and women make, and the ways writers could
incorporate those truths into their stories.
In 2013, it became apparent that readers also wanted to
learn about Dominance and submission and thus, we opened the doors to them as
well.
This, our third year, expands the program from three-days to
four as we added a BDSM Book Fair and Between The Covers Erotica Reading
Series. I also persuaded a few BDSM Experts I know that I love and trust to
provide you with even more information on this highly erotic and often
misrepresented lifestyle. Plus, we invited experienced BDSM authors to also
share their valuable knowledge.
As many of you have
heard the adage, “there is no ONE WAY to explore BDSM”
And that is true…
HOWEVER you will
discover that there is an “individual’s way!”
Over the next four days,
I will provide you with BDSM experts and experienced authors who will show you
“their” way of enjoying Dominance and submission. And from them, you will start
to create your own way of
interacting with others—creating your
own way of embracing various aspects of this lifestyle.
Writers, I implore
you to remember that some of your readers are discovering their desire for
dominance and submission for the very first time. Your words, finally give
voice to their yearnings. And through
your words, you become the judge and jury of whether or not someone’s
desires are normal or perverted. Thus, educating yourself –despite the fact
that you write fiction—is imperative.
Readers—I challenge
you to demand more from your favorite others and discover new ones.
A few years ago I read a book….
Four years, later
BDSM Writers Con is a reality!
Today, you embark on
a life changing experience. Just imagine what the world will be like next year….
All because of somebody’s words…
Thank you for being
here and making my dream of bringing education to help reduce the levels of
prejudice that surround BDSM and those that embrace it.
Now I want to
introduce to you the woman who’s the catalyst behind BDSM Writers Con, Joey W.
Hill
KEYNOTE
ADDRESS
by Joey W. Hill
At conferences like this,
keynote speakers usually start out with the statement: “I won’t talk for long”.
That’s because most of us are introverts terrified of public speaking. You’re
not going to hear us getting up here and saying “Okay, settle in, because I
plan to be up here a good long time!” We view the podium more like a burning
building and the sooner we can escape back to being a faceless member of the
audience, the better.
And on that note, I
apologize for reading my notes versus memorizing them, but I tend to blank in
front of a crowd like a deer in headlights. Or I go into bionic mouth mode,
where I can blurt out 500 words in an instant. And I ramble. I’m still likely
to ramble, but at least this way you know I’ve limited my rambling to a certain
number of pages. I’ll also use hands. I won an award last week and they
actually handed me this little fragile glass bauble – the award - right before
I walked up to the podium to give my 30 second acceptance speech. All I could
imagine was me doing the nervous hands thing and sending it shooting out into
the crowd and bouncing off someone’s head. Fortunately, that didn’t happen.
So all my caveats done,
I’m so glad to be with you all today. I know at times it’s been a bit of a
rocky road getting here, but I thank Dr. Charley and her staff for all their
hard work to bring us to this moment and giving us the opportunity to attend. When
Kathy Kulig and Cris Anson told me about their positive experiences with her in
previous years, and then Dr. Charley indicated she wanted to expand the format
to include more material and readers in the audience, I knew all those wanting
to learn more about BDSM from a writing or personal standpoint would benefit,
and I’m so glad to be included as part of that. Both as one of those learning
more about it, and one person sharing whatever value my own knowledge has. Dominant/submissive
relationships and BDSM practices are all about people – their personalities,
desires and needs – so there’s no end to learning in this area. Just like writing
a story itself – it always takes turns I don’t expect, and I learn from every
set of characters I meet.
I know there were some
readers initially concerned about attending this con, who felt that if they
were merely curious about learning more about the lifestyle because they enjoy
reading it, but aren’t practitioners or authors, that they would somehow be
perceived as rude, invasive. Nothing is further from the truth. While most of
us in the lifestyle don’t necessarily want to conduct a scene in Times Square
(okay, some of us might), at the least it would be lovely to embrace our
Dominant or submissive desires openly without fear of losing jobs, our children
or the friendship of neighbors.
The key to that is
helping educate others about what healthy Dominant and submissive relationships
are, and what BDSM practices are all about. Some of it is extremely intuitive –
I always give the example of Cesar the Dog Whisperer trying to explain to pet
parents what he is doing to help their dog deal with THEIR behavior issues.
He’s so good at working with dogs, so intuitive, sometimes it’s hard for him to
tell people really what he’s doing. They almost have to feel what he’s feeling.
There is some of that in Dom/sub stuff, but I think there’s plenty of area to
help those who are curious gain a better overall understanding. Having a hands
on front row view this weekend will also help with that. Even if some of the
things you see can look a little scary. The first time I saw a consensual
non-consent scene, I was like Holy Crap. But I watched, asked questions
afterwards, and that CNC scene helped me write a very memorable one for Marcie
and Ben in Hostile Takeover. Once I learned more, I understood more, could find
areas of empathy and make it work in my writing.
(Pause to signify change
of subject)
I thought it might be fun
to give you a perspective of my own personal journey of discovery when it comes
to BDSM and how that ultimately worked with my writing. In my case, it was my
writing that brought me face to face with my orientation as a submissive. Side
note here, and a point I’ll return to later as well: As many of you may know,
Dominant or submissive tendencies exist in all of us to a certain degree. For
some it is a deep orientation that manifests itself not only in a sexual way
but in a lot of other aspects of your life, and probably started in childhood.
That was the situation for me. For others it’s a fun area to explore to spice
up a relationship. For some it’s something you enjoy only in the pages of a
book. All of those are valid ways to experience and explore BDSM, so my
examples/experiences are only one of many paths.
When I wrote my first
erotic romance, Make Her Dreams Come True, I wasn’t familiar with BDSM other
than the distorted, horrible things we tend to see in movies and TV crime dramas.
Much as I love Shemar Moore, Thomas Gibson and Criminal Minds, if the only
familiarity one had with the terms Dominant/submissive were from that show,
we’d all be under FBI watch.
I had no intention of
Make Her Dreams Come True being a BDSM book, or even over the top erotic. It was
going to be a spicy romance that took place between two people who meet in a
mall. Next thing I knew, Daniel was tying Meg up to ladders, spanking her with
a belt, picking out her clothes, and teaching her to call him Master. And
giving her a key scene or two to act as the Dominant herself.
The Internet was barely
in its infancy, so I had no real resources to figure out what I’d unleashed
inside myself, so I decided to follow my personal desires. The first time my
husband tied me up, I cried. Not just a few tears. It was a catharsis, as if
something had broken open inside me that had been locked up for years. The
depth of my reaction scared us both. I was afraid something was wrong with me,
wanting and needing that feeling of restraint, and I was afraid I wanted it so
much that that need would destroy our relationship. My husband is not a Dom. He
describes himself as “vanilla with a mean streak”. He’s been trying to figure
out what Fetlife name he should use, and I thought “mean bean” would be really
fitting based on that description, but he chose something else.
Anyhow, that moment made
me realize my submissive needs ran deeper than just a desire to spice up the
relationship. This is where I started what
my husband might call re-engineering – taking something apart to figure out how
it was put together. First, I looked at my then current “day job” career. I have
a management degree, but during the 20 some years I was building toward my
fulltime writing career, the job I embraced was administrative support. I loved
serving people, making them shine, making their lives easier. I was
detail-oriented, exacting about how I wanted things done, because doing them
right was important to ensure the people I was serving could do their best job.
Because my husband is
quiet and shy, and I’m a control freak who has to take over if something isn’t
being done right, many people assume that I’m a Domme. Whereas those pretty
deep into it, after they spend any time with me, pick up on the power service
side quickly. In fact, I have to share - at Authors After Dark, Carrie Ann Ryan
and Sasha White were having a good time messing with me during our Mastered
photo shoot. We were dressed up for it, and I was wearing a corset and chain
mail choke collar type thing, so Carrie Ann was running a crop along my
shoulder and Sasha grabbed me by the collar, just to get that little dazed reaction
you often see in a sub’s eye… Sadists, all of them.
Going back to my early
year reflections about being a submissive, a couple key moments from my
childhood also come to mind. I remember being absorbed in the stories of the
Knights of the Round Table, especially how these powerful, amazing men would go
to their knees and beg for a favor from a lady, or serve their king to their
last breath. Their service was as powerful as a faith, even when they were
capable of leading armies, fighting dragons and bravery I couldn’t even
imagine.
I also remember Ken
holding my Barbies captive in a dungeon, tying them up by wrists, hair,
whatnot. One of my favorite role playing games was being the tied up damsel in
distress that Batman rescued – yes, the Adam West Batman – he was so masterful
- only I was more intrigued by being tied up than rescued. Most times, Batman
ended up tying me up again. I think Adam would have been in to that. He gave me
that vibe.
In my teens, I latched
onto bodice rippers that not-so-subtly reflected elements of Dominance and
submission with their heroes and heroines. My memory is a bit fuzzy, but I’m
pretty sure it was Elizabeth Lowell’s historical romance Untamed where the hero imprisoned the heroine in luxurious quarters
and told her he would gain her trust the same way he did his falcons, feeding
her only from his fingertips, teaching her to respond to his voice and touch
alone. Then there was Valerie Sherwood’s Bold,
Breathless Love, where the pirate captain ravished the heroine over and
over to give her the will to live when he feared she’d lose her life to grief.
The Kubler-Ross model should really incorporate that idea into addressing the
five stages of grief.
Finally, I remember a
friend with strong feminist viewpoints who grumbled about her fiancé wanting to
give her an engagement ring. She told him if he needed to give her a symbol of
ownership, he could just pee in a circle around her. I thought about that, the
ring as a symbol of possession, of ownership (lift hand to show ring), and I
thought…hmmm. That’s really hot.
So the signs of my sub
orientation had always been there. However, as ironic as it sounds in this setting
– and bear with me on that - in some ways I’m glad that my journey started in
solitude, rather than where I had a great deal of resources at my disposal. I
figured out who and what I was without being overwhelmed by terminology, the
way other people do it, etc. I explored the psychology of being a Dom or sub in
my erotic romances long before I did the mechanics, the toys, the trappings. As
a result, the psychology has remained the strongest leading element in my
books, and I think that element holds the deepest appeal to romance readers. At
least, I know it does for me.
I learned just how
individual being a submissive – or a Dominant – is, and that in turn has
allowed my writing to explore a great deal of areas without stifling myself by
worrying if I was doing it right or wrong…I just followed my own observations
and understandings and let the characters guide me, whether I was writing Doms,
subs, switches or everything else in between.
Now, before you think “is
she saying that attending a conference like this isn’t worthwhile?” I can say
the answer to that is far from it. I’m VERY glad there are now resources like
this con where you can validate your understandings, learn more and steer yourself
away from the pitfalls. Not everyone who wants to write BDSM has a Dom/sub
orientation and, as I mentioned earlier, the best way to help people understand
what healthy BDSM is, is to portray it with reasonable accuracy. Even if you
have the orientation, there is SO much to learn about this lifestyle. I
discover new stuff all the time. I cringe at the stuff I did get wrong in those
early books.
No, the reason I brought
that up is that, when this weekend is done and you’re going home with all sorts
of new knowledge, don’t forget the heart of your story is your characters, and
what their unique Dominant and submissive desires and needs are. They lead the
way, and the direction they take will determine how you apply the knowledge
here. Not the other way around.
If there is one point
you’ll likely hear me repeat this weekend, it’s that just like faith, happiness
and putting on your clothes every morning, there is no one way to truth and
understanding. Love and faith are closely related to me, and I’ve always been
baffled by the idea that there’s only one path. We’re a species that can’t
limit themselves to one pair of shoes, yet we’re supposed to have only one
right way of expressing love, faith, belief, etc… In BDSM there are basic
tenets that are important for everyone to observe – safety, personal
responsibility – but how we experience our Dominance or submission – is a very
individual journey. And that’s an important thing to remember if you are a
writer in or out of the lifestyle, trying to write a great BDSM story, or if
you are a reader wanting to learn more about it.
I know there are those
here who write erotica versus erotic romance, so forgive me if I keep
mentioning romance, because it’s what I know. Unfortunately, BDSM romance
fights the same fight mainstream romance itself has fought. First off, we all
battle the immaturity of our society when it comes to sex. After thousands of
years, you’d think most of us would have progressed beyond viewing sex the way
12 year old boys do, snickering over their first Playboy. Yet, whether you
loved or hated 50 Shades of Grey, when it first came out, what happened? It was
immediately dubbed mommy porn, which to me, seemed to be a tactic to trivialize
and denigrate it. After all, if it’s a book that encourages us to embrace our
sexuality, we should mock it, right?
Early on in my writing
career, I was told putting lots of sex into your story was just a way to avoid the
hard work of writing an ACTUAL good book. Why we haven’t matured to the point
we can see sex as a valid emotional and spiritual component of a relationship,
a way to reach deeper levels of ourselves and our understanding of others, I’m
not sure. But the very cool thing is it’s something that we understand when
we’re neck deep in a Dom/sub interaction, in person or in the pages of a book.
To me that is one of its deepest appeals. We can pity those who decide to stand
on the outside and condemn it, seeing only silly role playing games, or
manifestations of deviant, abusive behavior, but those who seek to experience
or understand it will see it differently.
The way we love is very
much the same at the soul level. Beneath male, female, white, black, gay,
straight, vanilla, kink, we’re all souls. We need to connect, to trust, to feel
safe with and accepted by someone in this often lonely world. Sex is a sacred
act. It’s a vital part of our romantic relationships, can aid emotional growth,
and has been a part of many faiths. If someone enjoys my book as a one-handed
read or as a personal revelation, that’s lovely, but when it ends up being
both, I consider that a win-win.
I want to wind this up
with a few comments about the integrity of our craft. Authors have many reasons
for writing BDSM stories. For some it’s a personal exploration; that’s how it
started for me, coupled to my love of romance and a desire to see more explicit
sexual content in it. Yes, I wanted to be successful. But it wasn’t my
overriding goal. I didn’t want my sales figures to be based on some marketing
genius figuring out how to convince people the naked emperor was wearing
Armani, or chasing trends. I wanted my success to be because one reader read my
book, and thought WOW, I want to share this with someone else. Someone else
NEEDS to read this so I can talk to them about it.
Ultimately, this cycles
around to help me as well, because my subject pretty much rules out discussions
with family, childhood friends and co-workers. Fortunately I found readers who are
willing to talk to me about things like “how did Gideon feel when Daegan had
him tied over double and was going at him like a jackhammer?” For some reason
my brother didn’t want to go there with me. His reluctance kind of relieves me
because there are discussions I don’t want to have with family members either.
As anyone in this
audience knows who has written a story worth telling, writing is hard work, no
matter the genre, because the elements of a great story are all the same –
great characters, craft, story development. In short, it involves hours of your
time, effort, and a mix of emotions from frustration to elation. There are
those out there who write just for money, yes, but for most of us we write
what’s in our heart, what our muse tells us to write. It’s way too hard to
write a great story to do it just for money.
Use this conference to
help you write an even better story, or help you appreciate the BDSM books you
read even more – or both. I hope all your experiences at the con will be
positive ones, but I encourage you to explore your own feelings about what you
see, ask questions, and learn all you can from the many resources that are
here. Be respectful, kind and patient with one another, and above all, have a
good time. I thank Dr. Charley and her hard working volunteers again for making
this happen and hope this first year of an expanded format will become a
resource for BDSM writers and readers we can all enjoy annually, for years to
come.
Thank you.
Friday, August 15, 2014
Riverdale Avenue Books Co-Sponsors BDSM Writers Con & Publishes First Annual BDSM Writers Con Anthology
In addition, Riverdale Avenue Books has teamed up with conference founder Dr. Charley Ferrer, a BDSM educator and clinical sexologist, to publish the first annual BDSM Writers Con Anthology which features 21 stories and essays by the conference’s featured authors which include erotica legend Laura Antoniou, Lambda Award-wining author Debra Hyde, as well as three new writers and established erotica authors such as Cris Anson, Gray Dixon and Roz Lee. The First Annual BDSM Writers Con Anthology is now available for pre-orders at the conference website and will make its debut at the conference where readers can purchase it during the BDSM Book Fair & Between The Covers Erotica Reading Series on Sunday from noon to 4:00 p.m. This event is free and open to the public.
The con is divided into two tracks: "writers" and "everyone." The writers track focuses on craft and includes a panel presentation facilitated by Riverdale Avenue Books Publisher, Lori Perkins. Editors from Samhain and Loose Id, as well as established literary agents and anthology editors are also attending. The track for readers and fans, in addition to the opportunity to meet favorite writers, includes live demos and lifestyle workshops.
The weekend is capped off with a night out at an actual BDSM club on Saturday, followed by a book fair and reading on Sunday, which is being presented by Riverdale Avenue Books’ Between the Covers reading series. Thirty-eight featured authors, from conference keynote speaker and NY Times best selling author Joey Hill to Laura Antoniou will read and sign books. The Between the Covers reading features a unique dirty word raffle where participants are encouraged to write a favorite dirty word on a piece of paper (with initials because dirty minds think alike). Prizes include a corset from hipsandcurves.com (a $150 value), samples of Dude Wipes, Simply Slick Oil Based Lubricant and Uberlube Silicone Lubricant from MySecretLuxury.com, and signed books by the readers.
“I am thrilled to be working with Dr. Charley Ferrer on this innovative, educational writers and readers conference and hope that the next 50 Shades of Grey will come out of the BDSM community,” said Lori Perkins, Publisher of Riverdale Avenue Books and author of 50 Writers on 50 Shades of Grey.
Dr. Charley Ferrer said of this alliance, “BDSM Writers Con is dedicated to bringing education and a greater understanding to authors and readers of Dominance and submission; a highly erotic and often misrepresented lifestyle. It’s my pleasure and honor to work with Riverdale Avenue Books to bring together over twenty of our Featured Authors in our FIRST Annual BDSM Writers Con Anthology.”
Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Between the Covers Downtown Pam McKenna, Arla Dahl and Emanuel Xavier This Friday
This month’s DOWNTOWN event bring authors Pam McKenna, Arla Dahl, and Emanuel Xavier to our downtown venue People Kitchen, 163 Allen Street. Reading starts at 7:00 pm.
Pam McKenna has been an avid storyteller since she was old enough to put pencil to paper. Her number-one passion is the written word, though if you read her novellas, you might conclude that her true passions lie elsewhere. And you’d be right. Pam loves erotic romance and has never been shy about pulling out the stops and treating her readers to five-alarm fantasies centered around BDSM and ménage a trois. Pam McKenna is the pen name of a best-selling romance author.
Arla Dahl is a lover and ardent reader of all things sexy and suspenseful. As a moody writer – she is moody and so is her writing – she loves atmosphere and intrigue, and she drenches her gritty erotic tales in both. In her Immoral Virtue Trilogy, she exposes, examines and revises the horrors of the 17th Century witch trials. Deeply moved by the viciousness of the times, Arla turns history on its ear until the very trait that caused so many people to be seen as “susceptible to the temptations of evil”, becomes the one thing that can set them free. Lust.
Emanuel Xavier is the author of the novel, Christ Like, the poetry collections, Pier Queen, Americano: Growing up Gay and Latino in the USA, If Jesus Were Gay & other poems, Nefarious and the spoken word/music collaboration album, Legendary- The Spoken Word Poetry of Emanuel Xavier, which inspired a choreographed dance presentation and a music video, Emanuel Xavier was named an LGBT History Month Icon by the Equality Forum, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to advance national and international gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) civil rights through education. He’ll read from Studs: Gay Erotic Fiction,edited by Richard Labonte, introduced by Emanuel Xavier.
About Studs:Gay Erotic Fiction: Rough and surly, smooth and sultry, or quick and raw — however you like it, you’ll find it in Studs, 20 of the hottest and best-written man-to-man sex stories to appear in print this year. In “Underground Operator” two men on a nearly empty subway platform indulge in rough, anonymous sex that lets them momentarily forget the stifling summer heat. “Donuts to Demons” finds a self-described “rock-n-roll artfag” searching for a lover “as patient and gifted and generous as he advertised on Craigslist.”
We’ll have our unique dirty word raffle where participants are encouraged to write a favorite dirty word on a piece of paper (with initials because dirty minds think alike). Prizes include from hipsandcurves.com corsets (a $150 value), samples of Dude Wipes, Simply Slick Oil Based Lubricant and Uberlube Silicone Lubricant from MySecretLuxury.com, and books by the readers.
Pam McKenna has been an avid storyteller since she was old enough to put pencil to paper. Her number-one passion is the written word, though if you read her novellas, you might conclude that her true passions lie elsewhere. And you’d be right. Pam loves erotic romance and has never been shy about pulling out the stops and treating her readers to five-alarm fantasies centered around BDSM and ménage a trois. Pam McKenna is the pen name of a best-selling romance author.
Arla Dahl is a lover and ardent reader of all things sexy and suspenseful. As a moody writer – she is moody and so is her writing – she loves atmosphere and intrigue, and she drenches her gritty erotic tales in both. In her Immoral Virtue Trilogy, she exposes, examines and revises the horrors of the 17th Century witch trials. Deeply moved by the viciousness of the times, Arla turns history on its ear until the very trait that caused so many people to be seen as “susceptible to the temptations of evil”, becomes the one thing that can set them free. Lust.
Emanuel Xavier is the author of the novel, Christ Like, the poetry collections, Pier Queen, Americano: Growing up Gay and Latino in the USA, If Jesus Were Gay & other poems, Nefarious and the spoken word/music collaboration album, Legendary- The Spoken Word Poetry of Emanuel Xavier, which inspired a choreographed dance presentation and a music video, Emanuel Xavier was named an LGBT History Month Icon by the Equality Forum, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to advance national and international gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) civil rights through education. He’ll read from Studs: Gay Erotic Fiction,edited by Richard Labonte, introduced by Emanuel Xavier.
About Studs:Gay Erotic Fiction: Rough and surly, smooth and sultry, or quick and raw — however you like it, you’ll find it in Studs, 20 of the hottest and best-written man-to-man sex stories to appear in print this year. In “Underground Operator” two men on a nearly empty subway platform indulge in rough, anonymous sex that lets them momentarily forget the stifling summer heat. “Donuts to Demons” finds a self-described “rock-n-roll artfag” searching for a lover “as patient and gifted and generous as he advertised on Craigslist.”
We’ll have our unique dirty word raffle where participants are encouraged to write a favorite dirty word on a piece of paper (with initials because dirty minds think alike). Prizes include from hipsandcurves.com corsets (a $150 value), samples of Dude Wipes, Simply Slick Oil Based Lubricant and Uberlube Silicone Lubricant from MySecretLuxury.com, and books by the readers.
Monday, June 23, 2014
Riverdale Avenue Books Re-releases “The Hot Streak” in Print from Romance Author, Cecilia Tan
“The Hot Streak is an interesting take on loving someone who is in the limelight. I enjoyed the book and found it to be an entertaining read.”—Coffee Time Romance
Riverdale, NY – June 20, 2014 – The innovative hybrid publisher Riverdale Avenue Books just re-released and published The Hot Streak from award-winning erotic romance author and baseball expert Cecilia Tan. This is the first time The Hot Streak is available in both print and ebook formats.
“If you loved ‘Bull Durham’ and ‘Fever Pitch’, then The Hot Streak is definitely for you,” said Riverdale Avenue Books’ Publisher Lori Perkins. “The last scene made me cry with joy and a little bit of envy. I could not put it down.”
In The Hot Streak, girl next-door Casey hits it big when she meets major league baseball player Tyler Hammond at a photo shoot and they start up a steamy romance. Traveling with Tyler, she’s living it up and enjoying all the hot sex she can get between games. But when Tyler’s on a winning streak, he thinks it is thanks to Casey—and she has to decide for herself: is this the real deal, or just a summer fling?
"Writing this book was a real indulgence for me," says the author, Cecila Tan. "I fell in love with baseball when I was ten years old. Baseball players were my Prince Charmings, stadiums were my Cinderella's castle, and The Hot Streak is my chance to tell a 'fairy tale' romance my way."
About Cecilia Tan
Cecilia Tan is the award-winning author of numerous works of romance and erotica, not to mention her baseball nonfiction. Her novel Slow Surrender won the RT Reviewers Choice Award for Erotic Romance. Her other romances include Mind Games, the Struck by Lightning series, and the Magic University series. Tan's erotic short stories have been collected in the books Black Feathers, White Flames, Edge Plays, and Telepaths Don't Need Safewords and she has also edited close to a hundred erotica anthologies for various publishers including Circlet Press, the publishing house she founded in 1992. She lives in the Boston area with her partner corwin and three cats.
Friday, June 20, 2014
Why Let Fantasy Writers Have All the Fun? Guest Post by Donna Minkowitz
I wrote Growing Up Golem, among other reasons, out of a profound envy of the work that fantasy writers do. Magic swords, evil usurpers, captive monsters straining to be free- aren't they the language of the soul? Just as important, aren't they fun?
The elements of fantasy are active in all of our brains, no matter what culture we come from, or what our politics are.
Impossible trials, shapeshifting lovers, child-eaters, kings and queens -- they are all there in their richness and glory, inevitably becoming part of the lens through which we see ourselves psychologically.
But I am a memoir writer, and the story I wanted to tell was my own sad, funny, freaky one. I always felt like my body and even my heart belonged to my mother, who wasn't physically sexually abusive, but definitely was verbally, and in the way she treated me in emotional terms as her lover, not a child.
And despite the way she might sound in that rather clinical description, my mother was alluring. She was brilliant, beautiful, and always talked to me about books. It was hard not to be captivated by her. And yet she made my sisters and me admire and praise her body, her mind, and her accomplishments so often that sometimes I wished my tongue would fall out rather than have to praise her just once more.
I felt like nothing and no one, unable to be desired, scarcely able to desire anyone because it had felt so shameful (and yet somehow inevitable) to want my mom.
But rather than tell this story as just another sad, heavy memoir about unpleasant things, I decided to tell it through the language of playfulness, fantasy, and myth -- the language in which we dream of impossible journeys, and creative transformations out of being stuck.
My mother had often "joked" with my sisters and me that she herself was God, and she had told us in all seriousness that she could do medieval Jewish magic from the Kabbalah. I decided to tell the story as though she had used Jewish magic to create me as a golem, a magical servant made of clay from Jewish legend.
I tell the real story of my life, but all as though I were a golem trying to do it, and pass for human. So, as a lesbian golem, I go and write for the Village Voice, I try to be a radical activist, I try to date real human women, but because I am only a fake person – an automaton made of clay – I am never able to have real power over my life.
But there is a very painful, difficult way that golems can become human, and eventually I find out about it…Thanks, fantasy writers, for giving me some of the tools to write this journey!
Donna Minkowitz
www.donnaminkowitz.com
Buy the book on Amazon: http://amzn.to/SXvmr9
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